Men Seeking Men LGBTQ+ Speed Dating + Matchmaking | 20s & 30s at Starlight on 22nd – Charlotte, NC

This is how dating should be. No endless swiping or awkward guesswork. Just a fast, efficient, low-pressure way to meet compatible singles in person. Our tech does the filtering, so you spend your time meeting people who actually align with you.

Here’s how it works:

• Smart matchmaking: After you buy your ticket, you’ll complete a quick questionnaire. Our system matches you with the best 9-12 people based on your preferences.
• Mini-dates: Short, structured conversations with prompts provided. Enough time to feel a vibe, not enough to feel awkward.
• Simple decisions: After each date, tap yes or no, and mutual matches are sent straight to your phone after the event.

Who will I be paired with for my mini dates? 

Your ticket's age category helps us keep the event balanced for the best experience, but don't worry - it doesn't determine the age of who you'll be paired with. Our matchmaking tech (sent after you RSVP) uses your personal preferences including age, values, lifestyle, and other compatibility factors to curate your mini dates. The goal is to introduce you to people who are the best fit for you. :)

Come solo like most of our guests, or bring a friend. Either way, the room is full of fun, genuine singles.

️ Spots are limited and these events regularly sell out, so don’t wait! Grab your ticket, set up your profile, and let our host and matchmaking tech handle the rest.

Check out our Instagram or website to learn more!

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Additional Notes:

While tickets for this event are sold by age range, we recognize that age is only one factor in determining potential compatibility. If we believe there is a strong potential match for you outside your identified age range, we may still try to facilitate that connection.

Our goal is to create a welcoming and inclusive environment for all attendees, and we hope that everyone will approach this event with an open heart and an open mind.

It is important to note that we do not discriminate based on age or sex, and all attendees are welcome at this event.

If you have ideas for other events, improvements, or feedback, please contact us here: Contact — Connecting Charlotte.